There's a specific kind of relief that belongs to people who finally cancelled the plan they had been dreading for two weeks, and it isn't laziness, it's the first taste of a no that didn't have to be earned with an excuse
The relief that follows cancelling a dreaded plan isn't laziness or avoidance. It's often the first time someone says no without paying for it with an excuse, and the size of the relief tells you exactly how misaligned the original yes was....
